Maybe a button that can convert the clipboard and add | and auto fill in the FAYT input?
Yes, modify the script from here:
https://resource.dopus.com/t/filter-select-multiple-files/36036/2
Is there anyway to select the lister that the filter is on with the keyboard?
Assuming you meant File Display, check Preferences / File Displays / Options / Use Tab key to switch source/destination in dual-display Listers or define a hotkey:
Set SOURCE=Toggle