Cant automatically copy?

Hi

i just upgraded from v12 to v13. Everything is fine. except this:

i have two listers open.
both are set to Power Mode.
i press the copy or move button, and a window comes up to select the destination folder. This is wrong, and never has happened in the previous versions (if i had 2 or more listers open). it should automatically copy/move to the other lister's active tab without asking where to go.
i have reset the status bar to factory defaults, and in the configuration for it, there is a lister state in there, but that does not appear on the status bar. (on v11 i clicked that to designate what lister was source/destination).
how do i get it to move/copy into the other lister?

thanks

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awesome..

thanks.