the reason why i was saving the toolbars is because it wasn't saving them when I exited the program, I think. Not really sure now if I was doing something wrong.
I think I had the setting loading up the default dual veritcal or something, and my stuff wasn't saved to that. But i changed that setting and it doesn't seem to be a problem now.
As for not using the latest version, wasn't it just released a little bit ago?
not that it matters, I do usually update stuff to the latest, I'm just not into stuff automatically updating, can cause too many problems (not that it would cause Opus any problems, but I like to be safe.)
I don't know why i'm using the unicode version, it's not like I have to. I can only read & write english and i'm pretty sure ansi has me covered in that front. =)
So, I guess, I will install the latest version.
oh, ya, I thought maybe the default toolbars were set to read only, but that wasn't the case, it just doesn't seem like it wants to save to them. But that doesn't matter now, since that isn't the way i'm supposed to do it.
Guess maybe I should rtfm, but, well, along with my dyslexia I'm AADD, so I have to reread everything a few times since my mind starts wandering... =)
not that i'm making excuses, it's just when I last pulled up the pdf, I noticed some weird behavior in Foxit (what I use to read pdf, great program!) and i got distracted dealing with it. It likes to open the manual to page 40. yet it doesn't do that to any other pdfs i have, and it's not like it goes to the last page you were at, because I kept putting it back to page 1 and still it would open to page 40. not that it has anything to do with this, just giving out excuses. 
thanks for the feedback, I appreciate it.