I'm curious, what is the solution? o)
An old friend, i found his telephone number (thanks to Everything Searcn inside files), & he is a tech freak, ordering electronics from abroad all the time. Then i remembered, that he uses PayPal. So i gave him a call, after a long time, and sure enough, he not only knows Directory Opus, but is willing to help. Anyway, thanks also to you guys and to you, tbone, it's always good to have a 'fall back'. Now i can save that brazen 45 bucks fee, it is only an inland money transfer now, even the same bank, and the rest will happen via PayPal. 
Now i'm only waiting for the official announcement and the exact price.
Alright! o) Buy him a license with the saved money! o))
That's exactly what i thought!