After using the copy or move to folder or paste feature, the files are indeed copied/moved fine, but is there a way to make the new/replaced files selected in the new destination?
I don't think there's a way to do this at the moment.
To make selecting new files easier you can turn on the option to always add them to the bottom of the file list (like Explorer does), although that can be really annoying.
If you've configured Opus not to copy over the created or modified timestamps of files then you could make a button which selects files created in the last 5 seconds or so, which would often catch recently copied files. Not completely reliable, though, of course.
Drop GPSoft a feature request via their webpage if you still want the feature.
Thanks. I will point to this thread for the feature request.