Wow, I would have never found that, unless it was just by mistake, lol.
Ended up doing:
- Right click on Toolbar --> Customize...
- Keys (tab) --> New (btn) --> Advanced... (btn)
- Commands --> Go
- Arguments --> REFRESHTHUMBS/Q -->
And then set the hotkey to Ctrl+`
This will refresh the thumbnails displayed for all sub folders.
Indeed that is EXACTLY what I was looking for, because you no longer have to rebuild the whole building to just modify one room.
That should have been included on the toolbar 
In any case, I am able to change the Date Modified on the 4 files to be preferred, and then execute that command on its parent folder.
I guess the issues before would be how I would put images in folders with videos, and many times the videos would be preferred because they take minutes to download, thus causing them to always have a more current Date Modified attribute.
The odd behavior was that, the images were preferred and 'locked in' if the video file was still downloading -- Probably due to the fact that the video file was still downloading, and thus, Dopus couldn't find a valid thumbnail in the file, and processed the images instead.
So basically, if I browsed to the folder’s parent, before the videos were done, the thumbnails would be cached and locked in instead.
Other wise, if I waited until the videos were done before browsing to the folder’s parent, then the videos would be cached.
Wow, finally solved!
In the future, it would still be nice to be able to fine tune Dopus' preference, such as creating a filter for how it determines which thumbnails to display.
Ex: Date Modified VS Date Created, Specific Img/Video files types, or Prefer Image filetypes to Video file types (or vise versa)
Just something to consider.
Some notes:
It appears Dopus chooses the thumbnails to display based on the files with the most recent Date Modified
It does not work for Date Created nor Date Accessed, only the most recent Date Modified.
The GO REFRESHTHUMBS command only works for subfolders, but the current folder (To refresh the current folder, do a refresh on its parent folder)
To change the thumbnails for a cached folder without having to rename it:
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Use an application that allows you to change the file properties for files, and do so for the 4 images/videos that you want to be the thumbnails for that folder. -- Ensure the Date Modified surpasses that of any other files in there.
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Go up one folder to its parent folder, and perform the GO REFRESHTHUMBS command (such as through a hotkey)