The script addin I did and which Leo linked to still does the job for me, unchanged script since then. I can recommend, cannot speak for the other solutions, did not try them, they did not meet my requirements.
You know that DO is able to open multiple listers with two file displays and multiple tabs in each? o)
Computer crashing because of hardware/driver issues at regular intervals surely needs fixing if possible, but this is only a part of the problem. Think of blackout/brownout, dead laptop battery, DO itself crashing, Windows crashing suddenly, unexpected but rare windows reboots/resets due to bad connections/whatever, accidental power plug removal, thumb/drives disconnecting. I think I experienced all of them already.
Ah, I missed this one: Using the "Staubsauger", the dust hover thing.. you know, the thing sucking in the dirt from the floor, I don't know the correct english name right now. I touched pc tower twice with the dust nozzle.. electric discharge happened -> computer restarted (and blew display port to hdmi adapter btw.). Long story short, you can't think of all the reasons DO cannot exit properly.